Very interesting Article Noey. I agree also that we often take the word forgiveness very lightly. It is often easier said that done and can only be done through God's grace and strength.
My question would be:
How can some people expect one to forgive instantaneously when there is always a time needed for healing, whether you call yourself a Christian or not?. If you heart is not healed from the hurt can you truly forgive? Do we often pay lip sevice by saying we forgive, when we cannot look the person who has hurt us in the eye?
Weary of what? forgiveness is a positive action done with a positive mindset, if you forgive someone grudgingly its not really forgiveness, Micah 7:19 says God will have compassion and cast our sins to the bottom of the sea, I don't get the impression that he did this being weary and we should certainly follow His lead.